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Tips for starting a new job...

As you may have seen (!) I have just started a new job and although it has been a bit of a whirlwind so far, I thought sharing some hints and tips might be useful to anyone starting somewhere new. I was at my last job for 3 years so it has been a while since I was a newbie and I was in a right tizz last Monday! I thought I would share my tips for starting a new job and my thought processes for them. Please bear in mind that this is only my experience and one working in a fairly smart office so please be led by your company's guidelines!

Left- dress: Oasis, shoes: Marks & Spencer, middle- top: Warehouse, trousers: ASOS, shoes: French Sole c/o Spartoo, right- dress: Sainsbury's, shoes: c/o Tesco

* Wear an old favourite on your first day- you need to look professional but feeling comfortable is so important! Originally I was going to wear trousers but I always feel more comfortable in a dress so I went for a navy Tesco dress (which sadly I didn't manage to get pictures of). I am contradicting myself slightly here as I only bought this dress in the charity shop a few weeks ago but both the colour and shape felt classic Maria so it was hardly out of my comfort zone! So far I have worn my smarter dresses and trousers with blouses rather than t-shirts and have only had positive feedback which is good!

* Be led by your colleagues on dress code- this will save any embarrassment, for example I found out on day one that jeans were a big no no (except on dress down Fridays) so I had to mentally revise some planned outfits as a result. I did find out that brightly coloured hair was OK though so that gave me some food for thought ;) This also means that you won't go out and spend unnecessary money on clothes that won't be suitable, whilst giving you an excuse to buy 'stuff for work'!

* Neutral make-up is key for your first few days. I am a massive fan of bright lipsticks but my first day was probably not the time to be worrying about whether it needs reapplying or if I have smudged it. I went for soft peachy lipstick and kept the rest pretty simple. You want people to remember your face, not just your make-up! Now I am in week 2 I feel a lot more comfortable and I am back to my usual colourful self!

* Wear comfy shoes- you will be introduced to a lot of people and probably shown round the office. I have done a lot of walking this week so have been wearing flat shoes to save my poor battered feet. It is only a mile or so each way but I may have to become one of those people who wears trainers to walk in and just change my shoes at work instead...




* Get a floor plan- this is really helpful when trying to learn people's names and also means you don't have to wander around awkwardly trying to find the toilets...

* Take plasters, paracetamol etc. but don't overpack your bag- I am very accident prone so being prepared is key but there is nothing worse than having to heft a huge bag around, especially on an unfamiliar commute!

* Take in a water bottle- this at least means you can stay hydrated until you know what the situation is on tea and coffee. There's nothing worse than having a dry scratchy throat, especially as you will be doing a lot of talking.

* Food- luckily my diabetes means I have an excuse for carting around so much food (ahem) but I can guarantee that you will be absolutely starving. Nerves and adrenaline are a lethal combination and if you're anything like me, you will be ravenous by 10 o' clock so making sure you have a bag filled with food is always a good idea...

* Take a notebook and a pen in with you- I took the one which I had used for interview prep and was able to refamiliarize myself with all the notes I had made previously, whilst waiting for people to arrive etc. It gave me something to focus on and I felt slightly less out of my depth as a result.

* Bring something to do- Until you know what the deal is with your training schedule and lunch tomes, it is probably best to not go wandering off at lunchtime. I normally have a book or something to do in my bag and so far I have read The Talented Mr Ripley in my lunch break and have nearly finished The Secret History so far. I never seem to get much reading done at home so my desk is an ideal spot to catch up on my 'to read' list...

* Chewing gum- this is pretty self explanatory but I am always super paranoid about my breath, especially if I am meeting lots of new people.

*Take up opportunities to make friends- I am super shy when I meet new people and being the newbie is always hard, especially when you are moving into a close knit team but I have found that gestures like going out for lunch or offering to make tea or coffee will go a long way towards endearing you to your new colleagues. Obviously you are all lovely people but it doesn't hurt to remind people of this! ;)

* Ask lots of questions- you may feel awkward about it but it is better than going wrong and having to explain that to your new boss or team. They will want to help you and you can get away with pestering people a lot more easily in the first few weeks!

* Write everything down: I am a keen note-taker anyway but your induction means taking in a lot of information and having things written down makes it a lot easier to go back over them when you have time.

* Don't be afraid to push for training or to be included in meetings- when you are new, people can forget to include you in an an email or add your name to a list. I gave found that being perky and inviting myself along to things I think are relevant or helpful for my job has been really useful and things have slotted into place a lot quicker.Being pushy can be hard but it saves scrabbling to catch up later!

* Give yourself time to get used to the change- moving jobs is a big deal and you will probably be massively overtired and emotional for your first few weeks. Make sure you take care of yourself and don't beat yourself up if you haven't got your routine settled yet. I am not ashamed to say that ready meals and chippy runs have kept me going this past fortnight along with long showers and plenty of early nights...

* Sort out your routine- I am someone who thrives on structure in their life so finding a new morning routine has been important, if a little tricky. I found that the easiest way to do it was work out how long it would take me to get to work, and then work backwards to see how long I needed to get ready in the morning. It's not quite set in stone yet, but I'm getting there!


Hopefully this is slightly helpful for people, please do let me know if you have any other questions and I will do my best to answer them!
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Be right back (hopefully!) ...


I just wanted to thank you all for your lovely messages of support and for your patience since starting my new job. Obviously I am still in the midst of my first week and although it is (understandably) manic and sometimes overwhelming, I am loving it so far. I have found this week a bit of a whirlwind and I haven't quite got my routine down pat yet, but once I do, I hope that normal service will be resumed! I was also thinking about writing a post (or two!) about starting a new job, so let me know if this is something that you would find interesting and/or useful !

Hopefully be back soon!

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Date nights and decision making...

Thank you for all of your lovely messages on my last post, making big decisions and changes can be overwhelming (understatement of the century!) but I am really excited to see what the future has to hold! As soon as my initial wave of enthusiasm subsided, my first thought was what on earth do I wear?! I didn't get much of a chance to scope out the office when I was in for my interview but that hasn't stopped me picking up (more than) a few pieces for my new working wardrobe! ;) I spotted this top in the Dorothy Perkins sale and although I have tried not to wear any of it before I start (it gives me something to look forward to!) this was the basis of a perfect date night look to celebrate. We had a pretty early dinner so I didn't want anything too fancy so jeans and a top were ideal. I really love the length of this top, it is super flattering and I feel really tall when I wear it which is never a bad thing! I have to say that Dorothy Perkins is not a shop I think to look in regularly but having a browse reminded me how good their clothes are, especially for work and I will definitely be keeping an eye out for more bargains...

Top: Dorothy Perkins, jacket: c/o George at ASDA, jeans: ASOS, shoes:Marks & Spencer
Smoky eyes always make me feel dressed up but they can feel a bit 'much' when it is still light outside so I stuck to a swipe of liquid eyeliner instead. Max Factor's Glide & Define liquid eyeliner seems to be the only one that works on me but I would love to hear your recommendations. I'm (still) a novice but it's definitely something I want to finally master this year! 'Julianne's nude' by L'Oreal is another of my make-up favourites. It never photographs very well but it is pretty peachy on me and is perfect for when you want a subtle colour that won't vie for attention with your other make-up. 


The top had a waist belt included but I can't ever get that type of belt fastening (double D-ring FYI) to work so I ended up knotting it instead- much less faff! This gorgeous burgundy nail varnish is the 'Die Another Day' shade from the Opi 'Get Bonded collection' which I recently rediscovered in my vast collection. I thought a break from my beloved Essie shades was well overdue! ;)


Which is your favourite liquid eyeliner? What do you wear on date night?
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Changing lanes...

Yes, it's another day, another printed navy dress worn here at Frills 'n' Spills HQ! Dresses will always be my favourite thing to wear, mainly because they are just so easy to throw on in the morning and this one is a worthy addition to my wardrobe. It is another Sainsbury's bargain and I absolutely love it, the jersey's super flattering and the print is just to die for: it has the cutest illustrations of buildings and dogs on! Apologies for the dearth of posts recently, you may have seen that I have a new job (eek!) and things have been pretty manic here. I start my new job a week on Monday and I'm excited and terrified in equal measure. I don't know what my new routine is going to look like but hopefully I will still be able to snap outfit pictures and fit in some blogging! Change is always nerve-wracking but it is definitely the right decision for me, I am just anxious to get started so I can stop worrying about it, haha!

Dress:Tu at Sainsbury's, belt: Sainsbury's, shoes: Marks & Spencer outlet
MAC Lady Danger is a gorgeous orange-y red and although it's not subtle, it is super fun and it matched my outfit so perfectly- what more can you ask for?! I look particularly pale in these pictures, but that's the joy of wearing factor 50 every day! I got this ace Eucerin sun fluid mattifying lotion in my Glamour beauty box and I really love it. My family is prone to skin cancer (and I have already had one mole removed) so anything that makes protecting my skin easier is a winner in my book!


I really love the print of this dress, cute illustrations of pretty buildings and cute dogs will always float my boat! You know I can't resist a belt (I am worse than Gok Wan in that respect!) and this red patent one is lovely. Paired with Essie Russian Roulette shade this outfit felt quite retro without looking costume-y (I hope!)


I picked up these orange-y red suede shoes when I went to the Gloucester Quays outlet back in April and although I have only worn them a few times so far, I really love them. Little pumps with block heels like this are so comfy for everyday wear and I would have them in every colour if I could!


Any advice for calming my nerves?
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What I wore to work...

I am hoping that this will become a bit of a series here on the blog as now I no longer have to wear a uniform for work, getting dressed in the morning is much more difficult. I always love seeing what other people wear to work and I hope I can provide some outfit inspiration... [I should point out that whilst I work in an office it's not very 'corporate' so I probably have more freedom than the majority of people stuck behind desks as I can wear as many prints and colours as I like!]

Jumper; Primark, skirt; Zara, shoeboots: Office, belt: George at ASDA
 Mondays are always cold and dreary so a chunky knit paired with a suede skirt is a must!

Jacket: H&M, blouse: vintage,trousers: Topshop, shoes: Primark
 My favourite vintage blouse and gorgeous orange jacket to juzz up a pair of boring classic black trousers...

Blazer: New Look, top: F&F at Tesco, trousers: NW3 at Hobbs, shoes:Primark
 Classic cut grey wool trousers with a sheer leopard-print blouse [not as tacky as it sounds, I promise!]

Polo neck: George at ASDA, dress: Next, tights: Primark, loafers: Office, moonface: model's own...
I'm not sure why I look so grumpy but I love this 60s inspired outfit, perfect for rainy days...

Blouse: George at ASDA, skirt: H&M, blazer: Tesco, shoes: Office
I was going to wear this outfit last week but I had to change as soon as I stepped outside as it was just too cold. As soon as we get a glimpse of sunshine though, this is coming back out! It's funny, what I am happy wearing to work hasn't really changed that much from a couple of years ago...

What do you wear to work? Can you get away with colour in the office?

A few sneak peeks of the flat...

As you may know, I have recently moved house and started a new job, both of which I am loving! I am still waiting for the internet to be installed so here's some gratuitous house pictures instead of my usual posts...




The view is absolutely gorgeous and I love the fact that we have cows so close!


Living room...

Dining room...


Kitchen...

Mark looking rather ridiculous!

Our lovely Juliet balcony...


The sun setting over that gorgeous view..

Hopefully I should be able to share some proper pictures of the house once the internet is connected, I can't wait to get back to blogging properly!

It's not goodbye, it's a see you later...


Exciting things have been happening chez Fallon. I have managed to get myself a snazzy new job which I am super  excited about and all in the same week, found the most gorgeous flat to move in to with Mark. Unfortunately, this means that I will be without internet for a while so posts on this blog will be a little sparse. as until I started packing I never realised just how many clothes I had! Hopefully I will be back soon but with moving house and changing jobs, I'm not sure when it will be...

Missing you already!